by Vera H-C Chan Ah, that flighty winged lady known as Emmy. Every year, she acknowledges some absolute musts (outgoing "Lost" and Tony Shalhoub of "Monk"), and then blithely ignores others. Does Emmy hold some kind of grudge against David Simon " no nod for "Treme," following years of injustice against "The Wire"? Does she disapprove of Katey Sagal as the "Sons of Anarchy" biker mom " and most of the FX playhouse , for that matter? Or,