by Claudine Zap Usually, when your car has been stolen, you can kiss it goodbye. Most likely, your ride has been taken apart, piece by piece â€" and sold for parts. At least, that's what Brooklyn resident Amanda Pogany figured three years ago after she learned her 1996 Honda Accord  had been snatched. The cops told her to forget about it. So she and her husband canceled their insurance and assumed the car was gone for good. But amazingly, all these years later,